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I AM L.I.P

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Help Guide 4

Child Arrangements

How to get the court to approve your child arrangements agreement agreed between yourselves or through mediation.

Complete guide to sorting out child arrangements through the court process.  

The process of child maintenance. 

The importance of co-parenting for you and your children. 

And much more!

 

If there is a chance, even a small one, that you and your ex-partner can sort out your child arrangements between yourselves privately or through mediation, then we would encourage you to do so. If this is the case and you both have done this then please click on box 1 below. Box 1 will go through how to get the family court to approve your child arrangements agreement that has been agreed between yourselves or agreed through mediation. We will also give you an overview of what you can include in your child arrangements agreement. 

If you cannot reach an agreement then the only avenue is to go through the court process and let them help or decide for you and your ex-partner. But we must warn you this can be an expensive, traumatic and time consuming process if solicitors and barristers are involved. If you are not entitled to legal aid and do not want to or cannot pay the high fees of solicitors and barristers then you can go through the family courts as a litigant in person (a person involved in court proceedings and is not represented by a solicitor or barrister). This can be scary and daunting, but our Help Guide 4 will help you learn the whole court process and which court forms you may need. Please click on and read boxes 2 – 20 below. You will be shown what to do.

This Help Guide 4 will take you through the many aspects of child arrangements so you feel in control and on top of things.

Please note child arrangements was previously known as child custody, child access, residence arrangements, and child contact. 

  • BOX 1 – Will show you how to get the court to approve your child arrangements agreement agreed between yourselves or through mediation. You will also be given an overview of what you can include in your child arrangements agreement.
  • BOX 2 – Will take you, step by step, through the whole court process of child arrangements if you cannot come to a private arrangement yourselves or through mediation. This will include the process of you making the initial application to the family court to start proceedings and your ex-partner responding to this application.
  • BOXES 3 & 4 – Will take you through the forms you may need throughout the whole process. 
  • BOX 5 – Will take you through the statements and bundles you may need to produce for the court.
  • BOX 6 – Will go through the forms used if you want to appeal a court hearing & what is a court transcript.
  • BOX 7 – Will explain who are Cafcass, the different types of child reports that the court may ask for and the welfare checklist.
  • BOX 8 – Will briefly explain what specific child arrangement terms mean and the different types of child arrangement court orders you can apply for.
  • BOX 9 – Will explain what a ‘with notice’ and ‘without notice (ex parte)’ court application means.
  • BOX 10 – Will explain the process of taking a McKenzie friend with you into the courtroom. 
  • BOX 11 – Will explain in detail the time leading up to the day of your hearing, the process of arriving in court, what to do in the courtroom, remote phone and video call hearings, and the charity ‘support through court. 
  • BOX 12 – Will take you through how to sort out child maintenance between you and your ex-partner.
  • BOX 13 – Will show you how to ‘together’ go forward and co-parent your children.
  • BOX 14 – Will explain how grandparents and the wider family can get contact with or custody of their grandchild/niece/nephew.
  • BOX 15 – Will guide you through single parenting.
  • BOX 16 – Will give you an insight into step parenting.
  • BOX 17 – Will go over what is legal parental responsibility.
  • BOX 18 – Will explain what exactly is legal contact with regards to a child.
  • BOX 19 – Here we discuss alienation & the child.
  • BOX 20 – Is about the effect divorce has on children of different ages. 
  • BOX 21 – Will go over all the methods available to you to send your documents and files to the court.
  • BOX 22 – Will go into details about court orders and court hearings. 
 

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Other Important Forms you may need

1) Form EX160
2) Form TR1
3) Form LOCO19
4) Form LOCO19 - minor
5) Form FL401
6) Form FL401T
7) Form FL403
8) McKenzie Friend Form
9) Form N434
10) Form FP9
11) Form FP6
12) Form BR20NSP
13) Form EX740
14) Form EX741
15) Form FC600
16) Form GRO 185

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Statements, Documents, and Bundles you May need to Produce for the Court Process of Child Arrangements

1) Witness Statement
2) Form C120
3) Position Statement
4) Bundle
5) Draft Consent Agreement
6) Chronology

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1) Forms used in the Appeals Process

1) Form N161
2) Form FP161
3) Form EX107
4) Form EX105
5) Form N162
6) Form N244
7) Form FP244
8) Form N163

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Who are Cafcass, Different types of Child Reports Explained & The Welfare Checklist.

1) Who Are Cafcass?
2) The Different Types Of Child Reports Explained.
3) The Welfare Checklist.

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Child Arrangement Terms & Court Orders Explained

1) LIve With Order
2) Contact Order
3) Specific Issue Order
4) Prohibited Steps Order
5) Family Assistance Order
6) Consent Order
7) Enforcement Of A Child Arrangements Order
8) Occupation Order
9) Non-Molestation Order
10) With Notice And Without Notice (ex parte) Court Application.
11) Wasted Costs Order
12) The Slip Rule
13) Trapped Capital In Terms Of Legal Aid